Why not go with lyrics from a song that sum up your personality or attitude to life? Alternatively, make it brief and to the point; capture your passion and character and make it easier for people to find you. It perhaps comes as no surprise that the profiles that attract the most attention have a photo as well as a well-written profile. How soon should you message after a first date? Having a photo on your profile can dramatically increase the number of people who view your page.
If you're already a member of match. X Liked this article? Register for free now at match. What can I say? I love that damn mouse and always had a thing for cowboys. The fort I made in my basement when I was LetsGo, 33 You know that person in your group of friends who is always planning something but maybe gets a little too crazy about it sometimes?
Putting together experiences for people is great, but I like to create my own too! Perfect dates are going for a hike, followed by a visit to a new local brewery or trying a new dinner spot and taking a walk nearby. I work hard during the week, fill my weekends with activities, and definitely can be a big ball of energy at times. Out of all our tips, my number one for men and woman is to add details to your profile. One makes you sound like everyone else, the other makes you stand out. Give Them an In This next tip is especially for women—If you add a question or a conversation starter for the person looking at your profile to message you about, it can really help someone break the ice and message you first.
So help people out! What truly horrible lives they must lead. Do you have an odd laugh?
Freak out at scary movies? Are you blunt and to-the-point? Use a Quote If you have a favorite quote or song lyric, add it in. Quotes can be a great way to get your personality across and show people what you believe in without having to explain it all yourself. These guys have revealed very little about who they are, in a sense.
I bet they would be worth meeting! I know the post was a bit long because of the examples so I think you may have skipped several awesome profiles. You say these profiles reveal very little about themselves. I see a bit of mystery as a good thing, no a great thing.
What more do you think they should reveal? You also seem to be implying that if a guy is a serial killer or a bank robber that he is going to list it in his profile. Guys know women are extremely judgemental creatures and will judge everything and anything about a guys profile.
We keep ourselves a mystery partly because women like that and partly because we are afraid we might say something about ourselves that will make a woman judge us and never even wish to meet us. One caveat to this though Dustin is that too many guys are complete pushover pleasers and are scared to mention even the main things they find most important for fear of running off a girl. When I stopped trying to please everyone and learned to communicate my main needs without worrying about who I was going to push away, I started attracting the type of women that I really fit with.
Another issue with playing it safe and trying to cast a wide net is that you force the girl to switch her screening process over to depend more heavily on superficial things like looks, height etc. I definitely agree with you to keep things mysterious but think getting some core things down are better than being super generic. Not sure how other dating sites do it though. Dustin and Mike are spot on.
Best to keep things brief. I find most men on match to have redundant and boring profiles, which may or or may not be an indicator of what they will be like in person. Which site are these guys on? Lol and why did you remove the 2 top secret profiles? Most men DO have boring profiles. What happened to the Top Secret profiles? I find the opposite is true Tony. Women are very attracted to intelligence. What makes you think that? There are many types of intelligence. Was I being a smart ass?
Did I really listen? Did I make them feel stupid with my lack of tactfulness? Can you give some tips or examples, how to have a good profile intro? Howdy Marcel — I added a ton of new examples to the Academy Course. I have to keep some things for the Academy Members. I posted two profiles with virtually identical, non-descript headlines, listing all the things that had happened to me online turned into quite a psycho-rant before it was axed!
Whilst I got some comments with my own picture complaining how harsh I was being…. So your saying a male model got more emails than you did with the same profile. Uhhh — Not sure what you proved there other than male models attract women……. How about I do a free in-depth video profile critique for you as long as I can show it on my site. I tried to help him but no dice. I would totally take that challenge.
I loved this article!! Now, can you create the same but for women?? Pretty please wish sugar on top?? Then, yesterday, I read this really great profile. Cute guy and everything. Please know a few things: Not really any responses but much more interest. Again thank you for your advice. Online dating is very intimidating but a useful tool especially when someone like myself find it difficult to say these things in person but much easier and more relaxing with a little buffer. Your hard work surely has paid off.
I sent you an email Aaron. Also check out the eDatingDoc Academy or my free profile analyzation tool: Dear Radio, You are hilarious! Thanks for stepping up to your true calling. BTW — Is that a hint of Texan in your voice? God, I just want to pour acid in my eyes every time i see it….!!!! They are the ones in the dead center of the Mediocrity Bell Curve. I can understand how some of these profiles worked and also tell its for the men in there thirties and up what about guys that are younger in college and in their twenties?
As a guy I felt my profile was different and creative but I still need more tweaked on it.
Check out my free online dating analyzation tool: A lot of them are very similar. Its hard these days to see a man who listens, cares, and keep to promises. I wish i had someone to share some of my life experiences with..
If you're wondering how to write an online dating profile, you're in luck. Here are seven of the best tips and tricks from professional profile. See online dating profile examples for women so you have As a writer at the popular online dating site Zoosk, I've read countless online dating profiles As you write your own profile, use them for inspiration and keep.
You hit the nail on the head…I am finding it very difficult to find a man that will reciprocate. I want one man in my life for all of those crazy, fun, important reasons. I have had no luck with a man wanting to give as much as he gets. Enjoyed the profile reads immensely! Hey, I just wanted to say thanks for all the advice here. It was a pleasure to read. I am curious, do you find that these slightly longer profile bios work better than a short one?
Lots of people say shorter is better, but as a girl looking at one, I want more than just a picture, personally. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. Leave this field empty. Online Dating Profile Examples for Men. What to talk about on the phone. Match vs eHarmony Review. Online Dating Profile Examples.
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Gladiator, Fight Club, Braveheart, Anchorman! You should message me if you are: Sexy, smart, fit and fun. A woman's perspective on this dating profile:. Top Secret — Why? Tofino is magic, I first learned to surf there. Send me a message. Six things I could never do without: